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Home/Questions/Why do we feel nervous?
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Answer for children of age 0-5

Feeling nervous is like having butterflies in your tummy! ๐Ÿฆ‹ It happens when you're worried or scared about something new or important, like meeting new friends or going to school for the first time.

Your body is just trying to help you be ready for something exciting or a little scary. It's like your brain saying, "Hey, pay attention!"

๐ŸŒŸ Fun fact!

Did you know? Even superheroes feel nervous sometimes! Batman gets nervous before fighting bad guys, but he still saves the day! ๐Ÿฆ‡

๐Ÿ’กAdvice for parents

Focus on reassuring your child that nervous feelings are normal. Use simple examples like "butterflies in the tummy" to make it relatable. Encourage them by saying everyone feels this way sometimes.
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Answer for children of age 6-10

Nervousness is your body's way of preparing for something important or challenging. ๐Ÿง  When you feel nervous, your brain releases chemicals that make your heart beat faster and your hands sweaty. This is called the "fight or flight" response.

It's like your body's alarm system! Long ago, this helped humans stay safe from danger. Now, it helps you focus before a test or a big game.

Fun trick: Taking deep breaths can calm your nervous system. Try breathing in for 4 seconds, holding for 4, and breathing out for 4!

๐ŸŒŸ Fun fact!

Did you know? Public speaking makes more people nervous than spiders or heights! Even famous actors get stage fright. ๐ŸŽญ

๐Ÿ’กAdvice for parents

Explain the science simply: nervousness = body's alarm system. Teach practical coping skills like deep breathing. Normalize it by sharing times you've felt nervous too.
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Answer for children of age 11-15

Nervousness stems from your amygdala, the brain's fear center. When perceiving a threat (real or imagined), it triggers cortisol and adrenaline release. This causes:

  • ๐Ÿคฒ Sweaty palms
  • ๐Ÿ’“ Racing heartbeat
  • ๐Ÿคฏ Racing thoughts

Evolutionarily, this kept our ancestors alert to predators. Today, it activates before presentations, exams, or social situations. The key is recognizing nervousness isn't dangerous - it's your body's way of saying "This matters to me."

Techniques to manage it:

  1. Box breathing (4-4-4-4)
  2. Positive self-talk
  3. Progressive muscle relaxation

๐ŸŒŸ Fun fact!

Neuroplasticity means the more you face nervous situations, the better your brain handles them! Like a muscle, your courage grows with practice. ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿง 

๐Ÿ’กAdvice for parents

Discuss brain chemistry simply. Emphasize that nervousness indicates caring, not weakness. Teach long-term coping strategies. Share how you've overcome nervousness in adulthood.